Is it right to expect total honesty in a relationship?
In the midst of all the other relationship hassles I've had recently (she doesn't ever want to meet my sisters, because she thinks they're too snobby and they hate her so she hates them), she asked me if I'd applied for any jobs.
I lied and said I hadn't - mainly because I barely had any details of the job in question, except it seemed nice. Plus, I'm very wary of telling her anything she doesn't want to hear, because she tends to blow up about it. Hell, she blew up for a bit at my last Twitter update, because I hadn't mentioned any previous desire to go see a pop band.
And of course, she went into my email and discovered an email regarding the job in my trash folder.
We've gone beyond ballistic these days - we've just run out of energy in terms of anger.
She wants total honesty from me, but then I'll just tell her that I had an email from female friend (X) and she'll go all quiet or moody or ranty.